On house transferring I shared last time in my blog about the predicament that Melbert and I went through. I want us to move somewhere and rent our own space. It has been a struggle for me as I was having a hard time maintaining my privacy and space from my in-laws. But now I’m […]
Marriage
-- 4 Boundaries in Husband’s Female Friendships
-- Listen to your Maternal and Wifely Instinct
-- To Forgive and Forget is a Harmful Advice
-- Infidelity Effect: Symptoms of Post Traumatic Stress Syndrome
-- How to cope with infidelity flashbacks
-- The affair story : Do you need to know the details about it?
-- Is My Marriage Worth Fighting For After He Cheated On Me?
-- Emotionally dependent: Do you love your husband more than yourself?
-- Emotionally dependent: Do you love your husband more than yourself?
-- Common experiences of emotionally abused Filipina Wives
-- Silent Treatment in Marriage
-- Should You Stay In a Toxic Marriage for the Kids?
-- Law Protecting Women and their Children Against Partner Abuse
-- Signs Of An Emotionally and Verbally Abusive Relationship
-- Why Your Husband Fights, Walks Out, or Ignores You When Confronted?
-- Hurt and Angry at Husband: How to Let Him Know?
-- Two Types of Marital Problems
-- How to Deal with Unsolvable Marital Problems
-- Know each other’s love languages
-- Deepen your Intimacy: 5 Levels of Intimate Communication
-- REFLECTION: The Pimple Mark Syndrome in Marriage
-- REFLECTION: Confiding to your spouse
-- Love Map: Know your partner inside out
-- Learn the Secrets of a Fascinating Wife
-- REFLECTION: Know Each Other’s Love Languages
-- REFLECTION: Admire your man, it’s good for your marriage
-- REFLECTION: How To Change Your Man
-- REFLECTION: Complacency -- One Major Marriage Enemy
-- REFLECTION: On Being Boyfriend-Girlfriend Forever
-- REFLECTION: I’m a wife first, a mom second
-- Emotionally Distant Husband
-- 6 Common Experiences of Filipina Breadwinner Wives
-- Wife’s Brothers are Dependent on us
-- “Husband not interested on what I share”
-- The frustrated wife and the unresponsive husband
-- Wife and Husband Have Different Financial Goals
-- “How can I help my husband change his ways?”
-- “My dream career or my husband?”
COMPLACENCY: one major marriage enemy
The past week, as I have reflected my action towards my marriage, I know that I was being complacent. Complacent in giving affection, complacent in giving affirmations, complacent in making love. This was all probably because I wasn’t able to get the answer that I want, that is to transfer our young family somewhere a […]
When your man walks out on you
Quoted from Nicholas Sparks’ Dear John, below were the thoughts that were running through John’s mind after he walked out from a heated argument with Savannah: “One thing was certain: Savannah had walked in the door ready for an argument. Her answers had come too quickly, and I realized that they seemed less spontaneous than […]
Marriage: A lifetime of incovenience
Those who marry will experience distress in this life – 1 Corinthians 7:28 After The Feast, Melbert and I had a double date with our friends who are to be married this year. Our bonding for three hours concluded with my realization that marriage is a lifetime […]
The Pimple Mark Syndrome in Marriage
It’s during our teen age years, that one morning when we look in front of the mirror and we see that dreaded pimple. And that one pimple was enough to make us go “bad trip” and conscious all throughout the day. We haven’t even noticed and appreciated all the other parts of our face. The […]
The Marriage Killers
I just copy-pasted this from the Ebooklet, Building a Marriage that lasts by Dr. James Dobson. I’ve seen marriages got by even in the presence of other identified marriage killers. But having both a great and lasting marriage requires constant and conscious hard work. It’s not automatic. So here you go. ___________ It is true, […]
Learn the Secrets of a Fascinating Wife
I love, love sharing this e-book. It has been blessing my relationship with my then boyfriend, now husband, ever since I got a hold of it. I shared it with friends, Girltalk, Smart Parenting, and Kerygma Family. And hearing the testimonies of other wives has really made me glad knowing that it’s also working for […]
I’m a wife first, a mom second
Today is another milestone of Yesha. Just this morning I watched her rolled from her back to her tummy and then to her back again. And when she can’t repeat what she has just done, she hollered in frustration. But she kept on trying until she made it again. And this time I was the […]